My
last emails have expressed my worries over money. I have received a
couple of replies from those I sent them to. Thank you so much for your
encouraging words and prayers.
I decided 4 days ago I would fast. I know it came from God. In 20
years of being a Christian, I have never fasted and I needed to hear from
Jesus. I needed to know I was on the right track. I know He has provided
all through this ministry, but to have to think about money every day and
where it will come has been very stressful to say the least. I also
decided I would read my Bible all day while I am doing this. What a
peace that brings! Friday, September 6, 2013
Monday, August 12, 2013
Reflection on my time in Cambodia
While typing this, my friends at the
Pizza House restaurant that I've come to know so well are preparing
the same meal we had a few days after I first arrived in Cambodia. I
now know that it means “cow walking up a mountain.” There are
still so many things I don't know about Cambodia though, and two
months here could hardly suffice to learn an entirely different group
of people, way of life, language, and culture. I really feel like my
time here in Kampong Chhnang was more of a blessing to me than the
people I came in contact with while here. There is already an
established church, although small, in many of the cities of
Cambodia. Believers are able to worship freely with no persecution
from the government now, which is a tremendous blessing and answer to
prayer. A large amount of the population of Cambodia however lives in
the countryside and rural areas. The fact remains that about 98% of
Cambodia does not believe in Jesus, and there are many who have not
even heard His name.
I was able to visit a few of the house
churches that meet in these rural settings with my friend Sina and
see how God has been moving through this movement. There are some
powerful things happening here in the name of Jesus Christ that are
bringing people to faith in Him. I heard some of the most powerful
and miraculous testimonies in these settings, and this is how the
Church in Cambodia needs to grow. The churches that have been
established in these city settings need to focus their support and
efforts on village missionaries like Sina, that will live like the
people, talk the same language, and be the most effective at bringing
the Gospel to a nation that is so dark and trapped in spiritual
bondage to the enemy. As American believers who grew up in an
entirely different setting, we can still come alongside and encourage
and train these believers to fulfill this work, and I would love to
come back and do just that sometime in the future.
My favorite thing about Cambodia at the
beginning of my trip was the people, and that has not changed at all
throughout my time here. The overall friendliness of just about
everyone I came in contact with was overwhelming, and the
relationships that I've been able to start have been a huge blessing
to me. The amount of love I felt at a church I have only visited
three times here and the prayers they spoke for me I feel could not
be matched at churches I have spent years at in the States. I really
am going to miss the people I've met here terribly. The question I've
heard more than any other from them is when I will come back. I tell
them all that I will as soon as I can, and it is my hope that God has
the same plan in mind.
Please pray for the business that Mark
has begun here, without whom I never would have come to Cambodia in
the first place. His vision and heart for these people is just as
strong as it was over a year ago when he left America. God has been
blessing the Pizza House financially, and the meat packaging is set
to begin very soon after I leave. Pray for Ellis and Rachel as they
seek to help out in any way they can and have been learning the
language and culture at a rapid rate. Pray for the Cambodian Church,
that God would raise up national believers and leaders to go to those
who have never heard the name of Jesus Christ in Cambodia and plant
churches that will grow and multiply. May the name of Jesus be lifted
high in this nation! Thank you for keeping up with all of my posts,
see you all very soon.
-Brother (Baby) Mark signing off
Last time teaching in Cambodia |
Party with the youth group at Pastor Vuthy's church |
My best friend in Cambodia - Chan |
Tuesday, August 6, 2013
A Day at Angkor Wat
Rachel and Ellis arrived here last Wednesday. The travel seemed to go well for them. They have both spent a lot of time overseas so I think it is a bit easier for them to acclimate. Rachel has been soaking up the language since it's one of her passions and already knows about as much as I do! They gave me some support that they wanted to give me when we were both back in the States which gave me the chance to afford a trip to Angkor Wat! So after they sat in on all of my classes we hopped on a bus heading towards Battambang on Saturday morning to start the adventure.
On the bus I sat next to a man from Nigeria who teaches English at the university in the city. We talked about a lot of things since it's a five hour bus ride and I found out that he was born a Muslim, then became a Seventh-Day Adventist, but now is more of a universalist. He was convinced that people can be their own judges, they know whether they are good or bad enough to go to Heaven or Hell. He seemed to have respect for Scripture so I asked him about where it said that there is none who is good and what the cut-off was for being a "good enough person for Heaven." That Jesus lived the only perfect life and it is only through him that we can live in Heaven with Our Creator. He changed the subject shortly after that, but I hope that it helped him reconsider some things.
Arriving in Battambang, the buses to Siem Reap were entirely full for the rest of the day but in order to get a full day in of sightseeing at Angkor Wat we had to get there that evening so we piled in a Toyota Camry with six other people and made our way to Siem Reap. Right away we got picked up by a man named Nang who became our tuktuk driver for the next two days of sightseeing. I had really high expectations of what the temples were going to be like since I've wanted to see them for a long time, and they blew my expectations away. We got up before sunrise to start the tour at the main temple and visited about seven more temples afterward until the early afternoon. It really was amazing what these people were able to accomplish without any kind kind of machines or technology to accomplish the architecture. The level of intricacy in the artwork was mind-boggling as well.
We did a full loop around the lake on our way back to Kampong Chhnang, and that time I sat next to the main sports writer for the Phnom Penh Post, one of the most reputable news agencies in Cambodia. He grew up in the Brahmin caste in Bangalore, India and we had some good conversation as well. By the time we got back home yesterday it was late and left just enough time to eat and then crash into bed.
Be praying for my last week here in Cambodia and the start of Ellis and Rachel's time here. They're still trying to figure out what their place is in the ministry here and how best to serve God with their time. Pray for clarity for them and that Mark's ministry would continue to be blessed financially. Thank you and God bless all!
-BM
On the bus I sat next to a man from Nigeria who teaches English at the university in the city. We talked about a lot of things since it's a five hour bus ride and I found out that he was born a Muslim, then became a Seventh-Day Adventist, but now is more of a universalist. He was convinced that people can be their own judges, they know whether they are good or bad enough to go to Heaven or Hell. He seemed to have respect for Scripture so I asked him about where it said that there is none who is good and what the cut-off was for being a "good enough person for Heaven." That Jesus lived the only perfect life and it is only through him that we can live in Heaven with Our Creator. He changed the subject shortly after that, but I hope that it helped him reconsider some things.
Arriving in Battambang, the buses to Siem Reap were entirely full for the rest of the day but in order to get a full day in of sightseeing at Angkor Wat we had to get there that evening so we piled in a Toyota Camry with six other people and made our way to Siem Reap. Right away we got picked up by a man named Nang who became our tuktuk driver for the next two days of sightseeing. I had really high expectations of what the temples were going to be like since I've wanted to see them for a long time, and they blew my expectations away. We got up before sunrise to start the tour at the main temple and visited about seven more temples afterward until the early afternoon. It really was amazing what these people were able to accomplish without any kind kind of machines or technology to accomplish the architecture. The level of intricacy in the artwork was mind-boggling as well.
We did a full loop around the lake on our way back to Kampong Chhnang, and that time I sat next to the main sports writer for the Phnom Penh Post, one of the most reputable news agencies in Cambodia. He grew up in the Brahmin caste in Bangalore, India and we had some good conversation as well. By the time we got back home yesterday it was late and left just enough time to eat and then crash into bed.
Be praying for my last week here in Cambodia and the start of Ellis and Rachel's time here. They're still trying to figure out what their place is in the ministry here and how best to serve God with their time. Pray for clarity for them and that Mark's ministry would continue to be blessed financially. Thank you and God bless all!
-BM
The back of Angkor Wat after walking through it |
Bayon or "the Face Temple" |
Rachel and Ellis looking tired at Ta Prohm |
They had elephant rides! They cost 15 dollars, but pictures are free ;) |
Monday, July 29, 2013
House Church!
This last week has been pretty spectacular. I was able to join some of my students for a youth rally conference that was being held in town all of last week. The conference drew youth from five different provinces in Cambodia, and about 200 students were there worshiping God. The believers here are so passionate and it was an awesome experience to worship Our Creator with them. When my friend Ratanak was helping lead worship with some other students he rushed offstage and grabbed my hand and dragged me up on stage to dance with them for the whole group. Even though the songs are in Khmer, what I can do is sing the Hallelujah choruses and jump and clap my hands, it was a lot of fun. There was a small team visiting from America that were able to spend the whole week with them and then headed up to Angkor Wat. The last night of the conference there was a big bonfire and worship session that lasted for over two hours. It was powerful to be a part of and although I couldn't understand everything, it left me feeling very encouraged and helped me to build some stronger relationships.
The bonfire |
This
past Sunday I woke up and was out the door before seven on a moto with Sina heading
to a village about 25 kilometers from Kampong Chhnang. Sina leads 8 different
house churches that are all very young, two of the groups we visited were less
than three weeks old. We only visited four different houses that day, but were
on the go for about twelve hours. The first group we visited was the oldest and
largest with about 25 people in it. They had people who were able to teach and
even provided everyone with a small breakfast of bread and rice.
The next group
was much smaller, but I’d been there before. The man who had been completely
paralyzed before that Sina and some others had been praying for was there, his name is Taud, but I'm probably spelling it wrong. When
I saw him a month ago he still could not walk but had control of his upper
body. When I saw him two days ago, there was no sign of sickness left in him at
all, he was completely healthy. What I was not expecting was for Sina to say, “Okay
Mark, you can preach now.” I should have known beforehand that they would ask
me to say something, but I was not expecting to preach for the house churches,
even though they were smaller, about 8-10 people. I opened up to Matthew 4, the
passage I used at Tree of Life two weeks before and started talking with them
about discipleship as my friend Chandy translated. None of the people there were present for the service beforehand so I figured I was in the clear. The same thing happened at the next church we went to, also a similar size. At the last church we prayed for a man with a gigantic boil in the middle of his foot and an old Buddhist woman who could not use her legs. There was a boy there who was mute whose older sister was trying to help him read and sing. The love she had for her brother was one of the more touching things I've seen here so I had to get a picture of that.
This week Rachel and Ellis are headed to Cambodia, their plane lands in Phnom Penh very late this evening and Mark will be there to pick them up. Pray for their time here and that God can use them in powerful ways as a team for the three months that they will be spending here in Kampong Chhnang. Thanks so much for reading and God bless you, Brother Mark out.
First and largest house church |
Second church we went to, the man in the brown shirt is Taud. |
The third house church, the small speaker by Sina is how they do musical worship |
Sister and brother |
Saturday, July 27, 2013
1 Year Back in Cambodia... W.O.W.
Recap
of this Past Year:
When
I first got here I lived in two different cities for three months before Kampong
Chhnang. I didn’t get any enthusiasm to do what the Lord sent me to do; business
to support missions. I took the Perspectives Course on Global Missions which
said to look for a “person of peace” where you do ministry. When I came to
Kampong Chhnang, I found that person here.
In
October I hired Chinda to help me. She is a very godly young woman, but I was
very hesitant about hiring her at first since she is married and we would be
working a lot together and sharing a moto. You don’t see couples on motos
together unless they are married or engaged. So I was worried about that at
first, but it isn’t a problem now. Her husband Chan is working here as well and
they both live in this big house with me.
In
November I started an English school in a village ten kilometers from here. It
is going very well! The Lord provided a very godly teacher to take my place and
Mark has been helping teach there once a week every Friday.
In
December, Mosaic sent money to buy 125 children Christmas presents at $15 each,
what a blessing that was. I just never knew how much work doing something like that
took beforehand. Then in January, Pastor Repsold came for six days. We decided
at that time to not do fish ponds since bacon has a much better financial
profit and will employ many more people than fish ponds. It takes one person to
do six fish ponds compared to bacon which will employ between 3-8 people
depending on how big it gets. Bacon ran
into some distribution problems, mainly packaging, so I started a pizza
restaurant a few months ago as there are no Westerner restaurants here in town.
To say
the least it has been quite a year. So many things have happened in a short
amount of time. God has opened many doors and I say God because it has all been
from Him.
I
am not what you would think of as your typical missionary; more just a lover of
Jesus and a business man. Combining the two has had many struggles but many
more blessings. There have been some setbacks, but as always the Lord has
opened other doors when He closed one. For
example, starting the bacon; that was a big setback, almost 3 months. But
because of it I opened a pizza restaurant and it is doing very well! We are averaging
$450 a week which covers half of our expenses. That will take some pressure off
the bacon sales.
Working
with the Cambodians has had its hurdles, but none so high that time has not gotten
us over them. Things have settled into a kind of routine which is nice since it
has been pretty crazy for the last 6 months. I think everyone is ready for a
normal pace and I know it is a relief for me. It won’t last long as I will be
traveling to set up bacon sales after the first. Then we will see how busy it
is here. Right now mornings are slow, we don’t open until 10:30. School is out
for the summer so we don’t have much of a lunch either. But that will give us a
lot of time to get the bacon down good when we start which we will be needed. Teaching
them how you want things done takes about five times as long as it does someone
in the States. Everything is different for them: from keeping things clean to
packaging. Trying to explain why you want something the way you want it done can
be so different from what they have done forever that they want to go back to
their way of doing it. One big thing I still work with is waiting until
something is all gone before buying any more. I always try to have two of
something so when the first one is gone you can get another before you’re out.
They tend to just let both run out; it is getting better but I really have to
watch things. The reason for this is they have never had enough money to buy
anything extra, most do not have enough to feed their family well. So buying
more than you need is out of the question.
Mark
Wegner came here about five weeks ago and has three more to go before he goes
home, will really miss him when he goes. He has been a tremendous help for me
but not in the ways I would have thought. With him being only 22 years old, I had
my doubts before he got here, but the Lord knew just who to send. I have been
able to bounce things off of him and he has helped me see things in a different
light many times. Being by myself for ten months not having any other perspective
on things it’s easy to get stuck in one direction. One of the biggest things I
have seen is that a lot of problems I have been having are me: forgetting that
I came here to do business with them and forgetting that I also need to change
the way I do things. This is not the USA, and some things will never work like
they do there. Close, but not quite.
Rachel
and Ellis arrive on the 30th, really looking forward to them coming.
They will be here for two weeks before Mark leaves. It will let him show them a
lot of what has been happening. They will be able to pick up teaching English.
Six weeks with Mark is great but another three months will make a world of
difference. Pray that the Lord send someone else to fill their place before
they leave.
The
house I rented is very big, it has seven bedrooms. I thought at the time that it
was way too big but the Lord knew better. We used the downstairs living room
for the restaurant and with Chan, Chinda, Mark, myself, and now Rachel and
Ellis it is getting smaller. Well that is the short of it! The Lord has blessed
this ministry greatly, please continue to pray for it. God Bless all!
-Father Mark
-Father Mark
Me and Patrick |
Monday, July 22, 2013
In Rains Inside in Cambodia
Due for another update!
I remembered my German teacher in high
school playing Jeopardy with us to help us learn so I tried that with
my students this past week. Seemed to be their favorite game so far,
just takes more time to set up than board races. I did assign them
homework this week as well but all of them did it to avoid singing
the lazy song to the whole class, mission successful!
After teaching with Sina on Friday, we
went to a small group leader meeting at a church building out in the
country. Only one other person there spoke English, which made it
hard to communicate with people there, my Khmer is still very basic,
but I did get to help them color stuff for their youth group
gathering coming up. You don't have to speak Khmer to color with
crayons! We shared dinner together afterward as well which was
fantastic.
Church leader meeting |
I heard from my pastor on Skype that
same morning. I had emailed him regarding a hold that Moody had
placed on my account because I hadn't paid them yet for the
internship. He told me that the church had picked up the rest of the
money that wasn't raised and covered the cost of the three credits.
Praise God for His provision in that, and for an awesome family of
believers in Spokane!
Saturday morning I set out on Channa's
bicycle for Prey Khmer village outside of Kampong Chhnang to spend a
couple days with the family that Margaret from Peace Corps has been
living with. Mark was very insistent on me spending some amount of
time living in some kind of village setting to get more of the “true
Cambodian living experience.” Their village is about a 13 kilometer
bike ride, which isn't all that far, but Channa's bike had seen
better days. I think my favorite part of the weekend may have been a
hike we made to a large hill nearby and climbing to the top to see
the surrounding country. I do love taking hikes, and haven't gotten
to do as much of that as I would like here.
Me looking mildly dramatic |
A nice dog in Cambodia! - Patona |
The leaking truck with my friend Teav |
I visited the health clinic in Prey
Khmer this morning and was basically just in the way. The biggest
function of the building is to serve as a pregnancy center, not quite
my place. I spent the majority of the time in the waiting room
reading a book while political rallies for the election next weekend
were blasting their propaganda on the street outside. Keep praying
for God to put the leader that will serve the people of Cambodia the
most and pull this country out of the cycle of intense corruption it
is caught in. On the way back to the house, Channa's bike finally
gave out about a half kilometer from the house, which luckily was
right next to the bike repair guy I'd visited before. Dropped off the
bike and walked the rest of the way to the house and got to relax a
bit before writing this. The church I visited two weeks ago is
holding an all-week youth conference that I'll be checking out
tomorrow, pray for revival in this country and for the youth in the
Cambodian church to be on fire for the Gospel. Read this verse at the
end of Philippians since we finished our Bible study of it so I might
as well close with it: “The grace of the Lord Jesus be with your
Spirit” (Philippians 4:23).
-BM
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
Fried Crickets
I meant to get this post up a couple
days ago but the modem unexpectedly died again, this time while
skyping my sister; not a pleasant experience (sorry Elyse!). The
teaching has been going well though, besides the students not always
doing their homework. That one has been hard to figure out since they
come to the classes out of their own choice in the first place, it's
not a required thing. Seeing as how they won't be receiving any kind
of grade that sticks to a transcript as well, I had to be more
creative with how to punish them in some way. Made up a lazy song,
partly, I really can't take much credit for it since it's just the
poem “The Lazy Nothing-Doings” by Shel Silverstein put to the
tune Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star... or the ABC song... or Baa Baa
Black Sheep (take your pick). The words went with the tune well
though! Plus Cambodians seem to hate singing in front of their peers
so it seems to be effective. One of my Buddhist students expressed
her dislike of the Bible to me on Thursday, I don't want to shove it
down her throat but don't want to stop reading Scripture in class
either because of one student. I'm still going to talk about it
daily, but only one verse a day so it's easier for them to swallow
and doesn't take up as much class time as before. Please be praying
for my students though.
My friend Lai invited me to go with him
to Pursat last Thursday as well. It's not too far of a journey, at
least on a map. It's probably about the distance of the western
suburbs of Chicago to the Wisconsin border, but it takes roughly two
and a half hours by moto. I still had a good time though. We visited
a pagoda at the base of a large hill named Phnom Puk, gave us a nice
view of the country around us. It was nice to see another province as
well and get out of Kampong Chhnang for a little while.
This is what the ascent up the hill looked like |
Lai on top of Phnom Puk |
The next day I went to teach with Sina
again but afterward he wanted to go watch the fishermen by the rice
paddies. They all used nets, similar to the ones that were used
during Christ's ministry on the Earth in Israel. Made me think of
when he called his first disciples, asking them to follow Him so that
He could make them fishers of men (Matthew 4:19, Mark 1:17). I had
been asked the day earlier by the teacher from Tree of Life if I
would preach at his church that Sunday. I had no idea what I was
going to talk about, but watching those fishermen and hearing the
words of Christ in my head I had my idea. That we are to engage in
evangelism as fishers of men in this sea of lost people in Cambodia
drowning without Christ and teach them to make their own fishers of
men. One of the nice things about having to give a message in church
is that there is a translator so you get to think about how to phrase
the next sentence while they are talking, super convenient for a
first-timer like myself.
After watching the fishermen in the
rice paddies though, we were about to head back when we started
talking to a seller. She had a huge pile of changrah, or fried
crickets on her table. I'd been asked a few times in the past if I
wanted to try them but had found ways of dodging it until then, and
just figured I better bite the bullet (or cricket). I was surprised
by their taste though, more like salty Cheetos without the fake
cheese on them than anything else. I can check intentionally eating insects off my list of things to do now!
You're supposed to buy them by the canfull |
Please be praying for Chan and Chinda
as the weeks wind down before she has her first baby. I visited a
friend's wife in the hospital yesterday who had just given birth to a
baby girl. Mark said the women here are generally hospitalized for a
week or two after giving birth. She said she was very cold and they
kept piling blankets on top of her, so prayers for her recovery and
the health of her newborn would be good. Also for the business that
Mark is running, God has been giving it a lot of success and it
brought in almost 500 dollars in its fourth week which is truly His
doing. I read a verse this morning that I wanted to share as well,
reminded me of a song that I like a lot by Josh Garrels called “Rise”
and I wouldn't be surprised if he took some inspiration from it. It's
from Micah 7:7-8, which says: “But as for me, I will watch
expectantly for the Lord; I will wait for the God of my salvation. My
God will hear me. Do not rejoice over me, O my enemy. Though I fall I
will rise; though I dwell in darkness, the Lord is a light for me.”
Thought I would include the song in a link too if you wanted to listen to it, forgot I could do that :P
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kOEU3xt29Lk
-BM
-BM
Monday, July 8, 2013
The Sleeping Lady
Been a week since I last updated, sorry for the delay! I'm starting to have more of a routine here now though . We have Bible study first thing in the morning and then I help out some with the restaurant, then prepare for class and teach Monday through Friday. The amount of students has grown some, I probably have somewhere between 60-70 between the three classes, changes day to day so it's hard to keep track. Just trying to get all their names down has been hard enough, but I'm working at it! We started reading through the Gospel of John, just taking the book a few verses at a time from the beginning each day. We read through it in both English and Khmer and then I'll try to sum it up and explain it as best as I can using small words. That's why it helps to do a book by John and not Paul.
Went to teach in the village on Friday with Sina again and thought it would be the same as last week but he just stepped back and told me to go ahead and teach. The problem was I had nothing planned since I though he was teaching again and I was there to help him out. Just tried to think on my feet and I think it went pretty well considering the circumstances. It helps to pray before all the classes, knowing that God is in control of all the classes instead of me. Lost a bit of weight since being here, couldn't tell until I saw some of the photos taken of me teaching. There aren't any scales to know how much exactly, but I'm sure the change in diet is to blame.
I was able to find an Ipod charger in town with no problems for only three dollars but the when I asked for contact lense solution nobody knew what I was talking about. Nobody here wears contacts. Should have thought of that before only bringing a travel-size container of solution.. I did remember my glasses though so I'm set!
Met with my friend Lai on Saturday and took him downtown for some fried noodles. He wanted to take me to the top of Kong Rei, the mountain outside of town pictured below. The mountain has a lot of mythology attached to it from Cambodian folklore, and the people believe the mountain to be a giant sleeping woman was was abandoned by her lover in the story of the Twelve Sisters. I thought that all the legend attached to it was really interesting, and they had a temple near the top of the mountain with a pictureboard showing the story of the mountain. Sad thing is, I forgot to bring my camera with on the trip!
Sunday I went to Pastor Vuthy's church for the morning service. A South Korean Methodist group provided them with the money to build a brand new building less than a year ago. I went back later in the afternoon to give a message to the youth at the church. It was the first time I've preached before a youth group, and they didn't speak my language so that made things a bit different. Kayma, the pastor's wife, translated to Khmer for me, but I feel like some of it may have been lost in translation. I tried to use short words! The pastor asked me to do it again next weekend, which is great, I just think they like that I speak English without too much of an accent since they're all trying to learn it. Gives them a chance to practice. At least that was what he told me afterward. Either way it was a good experience!
Got another week of classes ahead, gotta do some more prep for that. If you could pray for my ministry to my students since that's who I spend most of my time with. That I would rely even more on Christ while I am here in prayer as well. Prayer is so important and vital to our growth in Christ, and I know that I have so much room for growth. Also pray for my friend Saran, he told me today that a few of his family members were involved in a moto accident yesterday, but don't have the money to pay for any kind of hospital work to be done. Breah prah tiempoh!
- BM
Went to teach in the village on Friday with Sina again and thought it would be the same as last week but he just stepped back and told me to go ahead and teach. The problem was I had nothing planned since I though he was teaching again and I was there to help him out. Just tried to think on my feet and I think it went pretty well considering the circumstances. It helps to pray before all the classes, knowing that God is in control of all the classes instead of me. Lost a bit of weight since being here, couldn't tell until I saw some of the photos taken of me teaching. There aren't any scales to know how much exactly, but I'm sure the change in diet is to blame.
Practicing some conversations in English |
Met with my friend Lai on Saturday and took him downtown for some fried noodles. He wanted to take me to the top of Kong Rei, the mountain outside of town pictured below. The mountain has a lot of mythology attached to it from Cambodian folklore, and the people believe the mountain to be a giant sleeping woman was was abandoned by her lover in the story of the Twelve Sisters. I thought that all the legend attached to it was really interesting, and they had a temple near the top of the mountain with a pictureboard showing the story of the mountain. Sad thing is, I forgot to bring my camera with on the trip!
"The Sleeping Lady" from the riverfront in Kampong Chhnang |
Got another week of classes ahead, gotta do some more prep for that. If you could pray for my ministry to my students since that's who I spend most of my time with. That I would rely even more on Christ while I am here in prayer as well. Prayer is so important and vital to our growth in Christ, and I know that I have so much room for growth. Also pray for my friend Saran, he told me today that a few of his family members were involved in a moto accident yesterday, but don't have the money to pay for any kind of hospital work to be done. Breah prah tiempoh!
- BM
Saturday, July 6, 2013
Challenges of Doing ‘Business As Missions’
Post from Father Mark:
Unlike ministry where you have a board to decide what should be done, business is not the same way. You’re on your own for trying things out, and if they don’t work at least you gave it a shot. People are the most important thing and no matter what at least you showed them Jesus.
In business, most partnerships don’t work. Especially if they work side by side, one wants to do it this way and the other a different way. I have found in business there is a right way and a wrong way, but only one way. Make the wrong choices and you fail, make the right ones and you succeed. Business is a dictatorship, like it or not. You can’t have everyone making decisions, it just doesn’t work.
I bring this up because we had a Bible study yesterday on Ephesians 4:1-14. Working and doing business is very hard. For example, I have been trying to get a big pizza oven done for 3 weeks. It’s a 5 or 6 day job. I have told Chan every day that I want it done. We can’t do any more advertizing until it is done. We can also only cook two pizzas at a time. Two weeks ago we had five pizzas to do at once and it took over an hour before the last one was finished. The customers were very unhappy. So today I had to get pretty strong with him about getting it done quickly. Which brings me to Ephesians 4; How do you show patience, kindness and love when you have asked somebody to do something time and time again? He’ll say yes and then go off and do something else. It left me feeling so defeated. I always feel so bad afterwards. I came here to love them and I feel sometimes that I am not showing that. I’ve explained many times why we have to do everything the same way all the time as well. I talked with my friend Patrick about this and he said it took two years to finally get everything done his way. I pray that it doesn’t take as long in my case.
Having Mark here has helped me a lot, gives me someone to talk to, even though I think I may be talking too much sometimes! He is learning a lot here, hope he can take the biggest things with him back to the states. One good thing is that he is getting more experience than most ever would in two months overseas. This being the first missions group that I have ever started, it’s hard to know if I am doing things right at times. I pray that the Lord clears some things up for me. Pray for both of us and our work here.
Unlike ministry where you have a board to decide what should be done, business is not the same way. You’re on your own for trying things out, and if they don’t work at least you gave it a shot. People are the most important thing and no matter what at least you showed them Jesus.
In business, most partnerships don’t work. Especially if they work side by side, one wants to do it this way and the other a different way. I have found in business there is a right way and a wrong way, but only one way. Make the wrong choices and you fail, make the right ones and you succeed. Business is a dictatorship, like it or not. You can’t have everyone making decisions, it just doesn’t work.
I bring this up because we had a Bible study yesterday on Ephesians 4:1-14. Working and doing business is very hard. For example, I have been trying to get a big pizza oven done for 3 weeks. It’s a 5 or 6 day job. I have told Chan every day that I want it done. We can’t do any more advertizing until it is done. We can also only cook two pizzas at a time. Two weeks ago we had five pizzas to do at once and it took over an hour before the last one was finished. The customers were very unhappy. So today I had to get pretty strong with him about getting it done quickly. Which brings me to Ephesians 4; How do you show patience, kindness and love when you have asked somebody to do something time and time again? He’ll say yes and then go off and do something else. It left me feeling so defeated. I always feel so bad afterwards. I came here to love them and I feel sometimes that I am not showing that. I’ve explained many times why we have to do everything the same way all the time as well. I talked with my friend Patrick about this and he said it took two years to finally get everything done his way. I pray that it doesn’t take as long in my case.
Having Mark here has helped me a lot, gives me someone to talk to, even though I think I may be talking too much sometimes! He is learning a lot here, hope he can take the biggest things with him back to the states. One good thing is that he is getting more experience than most ever would in two months overseas. This being the first missions group that I have ever started, it’s hard to know if I am doing things right at times. I pray that the Lord clears some things up for me. Pray for both of us and our work here.
Sunday, June 30, 2013
Sina
BM:
Friday morning was my first experience teaching English to the children in the village. The teacher who leads the class is an incredible man of God whom I pictured below, his name is Sina.
Sina lives a life completely sold out to Christ. I had the pleasure of spending most of the day with him and got to meet his family before heading to the school. He has three children, and his only son, David, is paralyzed from the waist down and cannot speak. His wife has also experienced brain damage since their third child and can no longer take care of herself. He cares for his family very much, and even with their conditions lives a missional lifestyle as a house church planter, English teacher, and prayer warrior. He had so many stories to tell me about healings and miracles that he's seen and how Christ has been using him to reach the villages around Kampong Chhnang. I don't think I've met anyone in Cambodia (or America) that leads a life as devoted and obedient to Christ as Sina has. He was a big encouragement for me, and taught me more about the power of prayer and persevering for Christ through trial and affliction. His ministry is supported by Mark and a local pastor, doing what he does would not be possible otherwise. Please keep him and his family and his bold proclamation of Christ to those who have never heard in your prayers.
This morning I got to return to the church I worshiped with last weekend called Light for Living. We celebrated communion together and then had a fellowship meal after the service. I got a chance to talk more with my friend Pirun who wanted my help to advertise a benefit concert being put on by his church soon for those in poverty in Cambodia. I'll be inviting my students to it and some of the others I know from Mark's business. They're hoping to have a turnout of around 300 so be in prayer for that as well.
Got to experience my first Cambodian wedding this afternoon as well. They're a lot different than American weddings. They're usually one of the only opportunities people have to get real dressed up in their communities so they go all out. They're pretty expensive affairs, but one of the ways that the bride and groom try to cover the costs is by inviting everyone they know. It is customary for the guests to pay between five to ten dollars which go straight to the newlyweds to help pay off all the costs. Usually they end up breaking even. They dance much different here too. You walk around in a circle and move your hands around in circular movements and don't touch anybody. With Father Mark and I being the only white people at the wedding, they made us dance, which was luckily easier than dancing at weddings in America :P but very strange nonetheless. It was still a fun experience and the Cambodians seemed to appreciate us being more than just observers.
Pray for the week ahead for me. Got a full load of classes but a broken computer still so I can't rely on technology to help me teach anymore. Also am still in line to preach next Sunday at the youth group but still haven't thought of a message. Pray that God would draw me and FM's hearts closer to His and that we could learn what being sold out for Christ really looks like from people like Sina.
Friday morning was my first experience teaching English to the children in the village. The teacher who leads the class is an incredible man of God whom I pictured below, his name is Sina.
Sina lives a life completely sold out to Christ. I had the pleasure of spending most of the day with him and got to meet his family before heading to the school. He has three children, and his only son, David, is paralyzed from the waist down and cannot speak. His wife has also experienced brain damage since their third child and can no longer take care of herself. He cares for his family very much, and even with their conditions lives a missional lifestyle as a house church planter, English teacher, and prayer warrior. He had so many stories to tell me about healings and miracles that he's seen and how Christ has been using him to reach the villages around Kampong Chhnang. I don't think I've met anyone in Cambodia (or America) that leads a life as devoted and obedient to Christ as Sina has. He was a big encouragement for me, and taught me more about the power of prayer and persevering for Christ through trial and affliction. His ministry is supported by Mark and a local pastor, doing what he does would not be possible otherwise. Please keep him and his family and his bold proclamation of Christ to those who have never heard in your prayers.
Me and Sina |
Got to experience my first Cambodian wedding this afternoon as well. They're a lot different than American weddings. They're usually one of the only opportunities people have to get real dressed up in their communities so they go all out. They're pretty expensive affairs, but one of the ways that the bride and groom try to cover the costs is by inviting everyone they know. It is customary for the guests to pay between five to ten dollars which go straight to the newlyweds to help pay off all the costs. Usually they end up breaking even. They dance much different here too. You walk around in a circle and move your hands around in circular movements and don't touch anybody. With Father Mark and I being the only white people at the wedding, they made us dance, which was luckily easier than dancing at weddings in America :P but very strange nonetheless. It was still a fun experience and the Cambodians seemed to appreciate us being more than just observers.
Pray for the week ahead for me. Got a full load of classes but a broken computer still so I can't rely on technology to help me teach anymore. Also am still in line to preach next Sunday at the youth group but still haven't thought of a message. Pray that God would draw me and FM's hearts closer to His and that we could learn what being sold out for Christ really looks like from people like Sina.
Tons of food! |
I was thinking about how pissed off the bride would be if this happened in America |
Thursday, June 27, 2013
Bat in the Shower! :o
From BM:
Was going to update the blog after I took a shower until I saw a flash of brown and flutter of wings coming at my face. Decided to skip the shower until tomorrow! They've got some big bats here.. Been having some computer issues as well, the screen starts to fade to blank in the middle of me using it, which makes it real hard to update this blog. Pray that that would stop so I can keep using it to contact my family and for the class I've been teaching.
Speaking of which! The English classes have been going well! Just finished my first full week at the two schools in town, and teaching at the village about 20 kilometers away tomorrow morning. Never been to this village before, so I'm not entirely sure what to expect. In the other two classes I probably have about thirty students combined, it tends to fluctuate from day to day. Really wanted to get a picture of both classes for the blog but kept forgetting until the very end of my last class this evening after I'd already prayed and said good night. I whipped out the camera and called who was left to be in the photo, so its missing a good chunk of students. Didn't help that the monsoon rains kicked in real hard about ten minutes before I left.
I've never taught in a classroom setting before, much less in a foreign country where I don't know the language, but God has been good in giving me ideas to use and awesome students. They go to school all day long and are coming to this right afterward to study more from a volunteer teacher. Just shows how eager they are to learn the language I spose! They don't want to use the English books in town however since that's what the nationals use to teach with themselves. So I been making up my own curriculum and using Powerpoint and such to help with the lessons. Played a whiteboard game yesterday where I broke them into teams, they were really getting into it. Probably because the winning team got suckers but either way, it was fun. :) Even though both of these schools meet inside a church building, some of my students are Buddhist. Pray that God might help me be an effective witness of Christ to them and that I would regularly incorporate prayer and Scripture when I teach.
Pastor Vuthy, some of whose children are in my class, wants me to preach at his youth group next weekend. Never done that before either, so I could use prayer for boldness, and that God's Spirit might speak through me and through the language barrier and interpreter to teach them some truth from Scripture. Still not entirely sure what I'm saying, but I've got some ideas.
That's all I'll say for now. Should be putting up another one this weekend, supposed to be going to a Cambodian wedding on Sunday so I'm excited for that and hope to get some more pictures up as well. God bless!
Was going to update the blog after I took a shower until I saw a flash of brown and flutter of wings coming at my face. Decided to skip the shower until tomorrow! They've got some big bats here.. Been having some computer issues as well, the screen starts to fade to blank in the middle of me using it, which makes it real hard to update this blog. Pray that that would stop so I can keep using it to contact my family and for the class I've been teaching.
Speaking of which! The English classes have been going well! Just finished my first full week at the two schools in town, and teaching at the village about 20 kilometers away tomorrow morning. Never been to this village before, so I'm not entirely sure what to expect. In the other two classes I probably have about thirty students combined, it tends to fluctuate from day to day. Really wanted to get a picture of both classes for the blog but kept forgetting until the very end of my last class this evening after I'd already prayed and said good night. I whipped out the camera and called who was left to be in the photo, so its missing a good chunk of students. Didn't help that the monsoon rains kicked in real hard about ten minutes before I left.
I've never taught in a classroom setting before, much less in a foreign country where I don't know the language, but God has been good in giving me ideas to use and awesome students. They go to school all day long and are coming to this right afterward to study more from a volunteer teacher. Just shows how eager they are to learn the language I spose! They don't want to use the English books in town however since that's what the nationals use to teach with themselves. So I been making up my own curriculum and using Powerpoint and such to help with the lessons. Played a whiteboard game yesterday where I broke them into teams, they were really getting into it. Probably because the winning team got suckers but either way, it was fun. :) Even though both of these schools meet inside a church building, some of my students are Buddhist. Pray that God might help me be an effective witness of Christ to them and that I would regularly incorporate prayer and Scripture when I teach.
About half of the English students |
Pastor Vuthy, some of whose children are in my class, wants me to preach at his youth group next weekend. Never done that before either, so I could use prayer for boldness, and that God's Spirit might speak through me and through the language barrier and interpreter to teach them some truth from Scripture. Still not entirely sure what I'm saying, but I've got some ideas.
That's all I'll say for now. Should be putting up another one this weekend, supposed to be going to a Cambodian wedding on Sunday so I'm excited for that and hope to get some more pictures up as well. God bless!
Political party rally going past, they had about fifty truckloads of people speed by. Election time is coming! |
Tastes absolutely nothing like stawberries, more like cheese puffs... ? |
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